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Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Published Wednesday, Oct. 29th, 2025
With heartfelt words on marriage and the give-and-take of lasting love, plus quotes from some of your favorite ethereal wave and post-punk goth bands, this officiant script is the perfect starting place for a unique nontraditional wedding ceremony.
This ceremony begins with a short, friendly welcome from the wedding officiant and a reading from “Lands End” by Siouxsie and the Banshees. Next, share a romantic declaration of intent and exchange your rings, followed by heartfelt words on what makes a love like yours last for all eternity. You'll end this magical occasion with a passionate kiss that lasts forever!

(Above: Real-wedding bliss from AMM's Wedding Wall, featuring a gothic-meets-country wedding in Texas)
"Siouxsie once said,
'Come take this hand at twilight's door
I'll meet you there, we'll share the moonlit floor…
…Moths touched by flame repeat their fatal game
Forever and eternally, the cliffs around the crashing sea
Unsolved and endless, wait for me.'
(Partner A) and (Partner B), you have loved, fought, and laughed your way into a connection that most people only dream of – a connection that’s fire tested, eternal, and endless...
You choose each other today, tomorrow, and ever after. Each day, you take each other’s hand and say – yes."
A unique feature of this wedding script is a private vows-exchange before the ceremony: exchange personal written vows with your love before the ceremony begins; then reflect on those intimate promises later, in the company of beloved friends and family.
Make this low-key goth wedding even more magical by holding your ceremony at twilight, or under the light of a full moon. Add your favorite lyrics and verses, processional / recessional music, or unity ceremony; then set the stage with a romantic goth wedding dress or suit, custom cake, and candlelight.
Goth Wedding Readings: Dark Love Poems & Wedding Readings for a Goth Inspired Ceremony
Writing a wedding officiant script from scratch can be intimidating! That's why our Sample Script Library is filled with prewritten wedding ceremony templates and sample scripts that are free to use. These scripts are a great starting point for a personalized ceremony, or use them 'as is' - they're ready to go! Just click the link above to visit the script library.
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