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Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Published Wednesday, Jan. 25th, 2023
With unrivaled fall foliage and lakefront views, quaint coastal towns and bustling modern cities, Connecticut offers romantic backdrops of every kind… making it easy to see why this New England gem is a top destination for weddings.
You’ll need to apply for your marriage license in the town where your wedding is held, so it’s important to get a head start on the planning process (and choosing a venue!) to avoid unnecessary stress. With this in mind, we’ve compiled a short guide to help you begin.
Fall weddings are a favorite in this beautiful New England state
Got one? Whew! There will be a few more boxes to check, but the hardest part’s over.
A wedding officiant is the person who conducts your ceremony and signs the marriage license, making things legal.
A friend or relative can perform your wedding ceremony if they’ve been ordained.
If you want to hire a professional, the state has many qualified independent officiants to choose from. The following people are authorized to solemnize marriage in Connecticut:
Various judges, magistrates, referees, and justices of the peace who are appointed in Connecticut, and all ordained or licensed members of the clergy, belonging to this state or any other state.
(See a detailed list of authorized officiants and more Connecticut marriage laws here.)
Looking for a civil union or marriage license in Hartford County? Visit the Bureau of Vital Records at Hartford City Hall!
Connecticut is home to rich culture and history, stunning fall colors, a picturesque coastline dotted with lighthouses, and thriving cities like Hartford, New Haven, Bridgeport and Stamford – making it a favorite for destination weddings.
Whether you’re dreaming of a big to-do or a romantic elopement for two, there’s something for everyone!
Popular dates, venues, and officiants book up fast, so start early. And remember you’ll need permission (and a permit) to use a public space, such as a city park or recreational area. Permits can take weeks to process, so factor this into your timeline, too.
Connecticut Marriage License Quick Facts
♡ No Waiting Period
♡ 65 Day Expiration Period
♡ Return Before Expiration Date
Did you know? Every state has different laws governing when the marriage license is issued, can be completed, and must be returned. There are called a state's marriage license Waiting Period, Return Deadline, and Expiration. Learn more here.
Alright, time to make sure your wedding’s legal! We’ll break down each part of the marriage license process, one step at a time:
You’ll apply for your marriage license through the vital records office in the town where the marriage will take place. You don’t need to be a Connecticut resident to marry there.
Requirements to Apply:
If you’re planning a wedding anywhere in Connecticut, we recommend contacting the registrar of the vital records office closest to your venue to learn more.
Your license will cost about $50. Some offices will only accept cash, credit, or money orders, so plan ahead! There’s no fee to register your marriage after the ceremony.
There is no waiting period between the time you receive your license and when your ceremony can take place.
A Connecticut marriage license can be used in the town where it was issued, and is valid for 65 days.
The license must be signed by each party to the marriage and the marriage officiant (officiator) following the ceremony.
The license must be returned by the wedding officiant (marriage officiator) before the end of the expiration period (65 days from issuance). The license should be returned to the registrar of vital records of the town where the marriage took place. Once registered, the license is referred to as a ‘marriage certificate.’
Same-sex marriage has been legally recognized in Connecticut since 2008, and there are hundreds of welcoming and LGBTQ+ inclusive wedding venues in the state.
Once you’ve chosen a date, a venue, and have your marriage license details worked out, you’ll be ready to meet with your wedding officiant to plan the ceremony!
This is when things start to come into focus. You’ll talk about the tone of your ceremony, the ‘vibe’ you want to create for your guests, and any special elements and unity rituals you want to include. You and your officiant might meet a few more times to exchange more ideas, fine-tune a script, or rehearse the ceremony leading up to the wedding day.
AMM’s website is full of resources to help you decide what kind of ceremony you want, tips on working well with your officiant, and advice on keeping your ceremony authentic and on budget.
Visit Articles for Couples on our American Weddings blog, or browse general articles by category or keyword.
Aside from yourselves, the most important thing you’ll bring with you on the wedding day is your marriage license -- because no license means no marriage. Your officiant won’t be able to perform the wedding without having a license present (even if you have it at home), so make sure it’s with you.
After the ceremony, you and your officiant will sign the license.
For tips on how to complete the license, head here.
After it’s signed, you must record it with the local county before the end of the 30 day expiration period. Check with your county for details.
Congratulations!
We’ve got everything you need to understand the state’s licensing and registration requirements, any ministry credentials and paperwork you might need, and helpful tips for several cities in the state, including Bridgeport, Hartford, New Haven, and Stamford.
Searching for the perfect marriage officiant? They might be closer than you think... Ask a friend or relative to get ordained online for free with AMM to officiate your wedding! Learn more here.
Asking a friend to officiate your wedding? Why not give them the Will You Marry Us? Wedding Officiant Gift Box and Ministers Credential Package. This gift box contains everything you need to 'propose,' and everything your chosen officiant will need to perform your wedding -- including the most robust minister ordination available and full documentation of credentials.
Order the 'Will You Marry Us?' Officiant Gift Box here.
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