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How Old Do You Have To Be To Get Married In Each State?

Published Thursday, Sep. 16th, 2021


What is the minimum age to marry in your state or territory? How old do you have to be to get a marriage license? 

 

The minimum age to marry, also called the ‘legal age of consent to marry,’ is different in each state and US territory. So, how old do you have to be to get married in your state? 

 

In almost all states and US territories, the youngest age at which someone can marry without parental or judicial consent is 18 years old. Exceptions to this include Puerto Rico and Mississippi, where an individual must be 21 years old to wed without approval from a parent; Nebraska, where the age of majority is 19; and in Maryland, where no guardian’s consent is needed if a minor is pregnant.

 

Most states have special rules for underage marriages. These include a minimum age requirement (usually between 14 and 17 years old); a premarital education course; a one-on-one interview with an appointed official; or the written approval of a parent, guardian, or judge.

 

The list below shows the general and minimum age to marry in each state, along with any special guidelines for underage marriages. Click on your state to see more marriage laws.

 

 

List of states that have banned child marriage / marriage of minors

 

Some states don't allow minors to marry at all, no exceptions. As of June, 2025, the underage marriages are outlawed in 17 US states and commonweaths, as well as DC, including: 

 

 

Child marriage bans: District of Columbia, Maine, Missouri, New Hampshire, Oregon, Puerto Rico, Virginia, Washington, Michigan, Vermont, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New York, Rhode Island, Minnesota, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and Delaware

 

 

 

Close up photo of a bride and groom's hands, showing their rings

(Photo by Negar Nikkhah on Unsplash)

 

 

How Old Do You Have to Be to Get Married? State List

(Current as of  June 2025)

 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry with permission from a parent or guardian. Parental consent is given with a signed and notarized affidavit filed with the probate court. (§ 30-1-5)

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry with approval from a superior court judge if these conditions are met: the marriage is in the best interest of the minor; the other party is not more than 3 years older than the minor; and the minor's parent/s or guardian has given consent (if fit to do so). (§ 25.05.171)

 


 

 

Both parties must be 18 years old or older to marry; no exception for minors. (§ 42.0101)

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry if they’re legally emancipated or have parental consent, as long as their intended spouse is not more than 3 years their senior. (§ 25-102)

 


 

 

Minors who are 17 years old can marry with proof of parental or guardian consent, including a signed and notarized affidavit, and an additional 5 day waiting period. (§ 9-11-102)

 


 

 

Minors who are under 18 years old can obtain a marriage license with court approval provided several additional provisions have been met, which might include an interview and assessment by Family Court Services, parental consent, or a waiting period of 30 days. (§ 302, § 303, § 304, § 423)

 


 

 

Minors who are 16 and 17 years old can marry with approval from the juvenile court, provided a court-appointed guardian ad litem determines the marriage is in their best interest. (§ 14-2-108)

 


 

 

All parties to a marriage must be atleast 18 years old; no exceptions for minors. (§ 46B-20A)

 

Related: Connecticut becomes 9th state to ban child marriage, raises age to marry to 18 without exceptions

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. (§ 123)

 


 

 

You must be at least 18 years old to marry in DC; no exceptions for minors. ( § 46-411 ; § 46-403)

 


 

 

Minors who are 17 years old can marry with written consent from a parent or guardian, provided the intended spouse is not more than 2 years their senior. (§ 741.04)

 


 

 

Minors who are 17 years old can marry if the following conditions are met: they have been legally emancipated for at least 15 days (or are in the process of emancipation and meet certain requirements); their intended spouse is not more than 4 years their senior; and they have completed the required premarital education. (§ 19-3-2, § 19-3-30.1)

 


 

 

Minors who are between the ages of 16 and 18 years old can marry with the written consent of a parent or guardian, submitted to the Director of Administration. (§ 3102)

 


 

 

Minors who are 16 or 17 years old can marry with the written consent of both parents, guardian, or the family court. Minors who are 15 years old can marry if they have the written consent of both parents or legal guardian and the written approval of a judge of the family court. ( § 572-1, § 572-2)

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry with written consent from a parent or guardian if their intended spouse is not more than 3 years their senior; and provided they can provide an official birth certificate or proof of age to the county recorder. (§ 32-202)

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry with either the written consent of both parents, a guardian, judicial approval, or, in cases when a parent cannot be located to give consent, a signed affidavit from a guardian detailing the name of the missing parent and what efforts were made to locate them. (§ 750 5/203,  § 750 5/208)

 


 

 

Minors who are 16 and 17 years old can petition the juvenile court for approval to marry if their intended spouse is not more than 4 years their senior. 

 

The petition must contain all required information, including details on how the minor and intended spouse know each other, copies of any criminal records, and evidence that the minor can support themselves independently from a guardian or the intended spouse, and is followed by an evidentiary hearing and personal interview. Premarital counseling may also be required. (§ 31-11-1-5 ; § 31-11-1-4; § 31-11-1-7)

 


 

 

Minors who are 16 and 17 years old can marry with the certified written consent of both parents, provided the marriage is approved by a judge of the district court. If a parent is deceased or incompetitent, the consent of the minor’s legal guardian is required. If there is no guardian, or if consent is unreasonably withheld, the court can approve the marriage. (§ 595.2)

 


 

 

Minors who are 16 and 17 years old can marry with the express consent of either both parents, a legal guardian, or the consent of one parent and a district court judge. Children who are 15 can marry with approval from a district court after due investigation of the circumstances. (§ 23-2505) 

 


 

 

Minors who are 17 can petition the family court in their county for approval to marry, or a district court if no family court has been established, provided the intended spouse is not more than 4 years their senior. The petition must provide all required information and be followed by an evidentiary hearing scheduled 30-60 days after filing. (§ 402.205)

 


 

 

Minors who are 16 and 17 years old can marry with written consent from a guardian, provided they have an official birth certificate and the intended spouse is less than 3 years their senior. (§ 9:221, § 9:225)

 


 

 

Effective June 20, 2025:

 

All parties to a marriage must be 18 years old, no exceptions for minors. (§ 19-A:652)

 


 

 

Minors under the age of 17 cannot marry in the state. Minors who are 17 years old can marry with permission from each living parent, guardian, or legal custodian, or with proof of pregnancy or that they've recently given birth. (§ 2-301)

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. (§ 207-7, § 207-24, § 207-25, § 207-27, § 207-34)

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. (§ 551.251, § 551.51)

 

Related: Michigan bans child marriage, raises legal age to marry to 18

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. (§ 517.02)

 


 

 

Adults between the ages of 18 and 21 years old can marry under the following conditions: with consent from of all parents or guardians and written approval from a circuit clerk, if their reasons to marry are satisfactory to the court; and a parent, guardian, or next of kin provides an affidavit stating the individual’s age. 

 

Exceptions for minors under the age of 18: Males who are at least 17 years old, and females who are at least 15 years old, can marry if the following conditions are met: they have consent from a parent or guardian; are not intoxicated; and can provide a judge of any circuit, chancery, or county court with proof of sufficient reason and desire to marry. (§ 93-1-5)

 


 

 

As of August 2025, you must be at least 18 years old to get married in Missouri, no exceptions. ( § 451.090)

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry with the consent of a parent or guardian, or approval from the district court. At least two marriage counseling sessions are required by the court, and the minor must show the marriage is in their best interest. (§ 40-1-203, § 40-1-213)

 


 

 

Minors between the ages of 17 and 19 years old can marry with the written consent, given under oath, of a parent, guardian, conservator, or custodian. (§ 42-102, § 42-105, § 43-2101)

 


 

 

Minors who are 17 years old can marry with the consent of a parent, or with the consent of a guardian and approval from a district court. The court can approve a marriage without parental or guardian consent under some extenuating circumstances, provided certain conditions are met. Minors who apply for a license at a commercial wedding chapel will be referred to the county clerk. (§ 122.025, § 122.040, § 122.0615)

 


 

 

You must be 18 years old to get married in New Hamphshire; no exceptions for minors. (63 § 457:5)

 

Related: New Hampshire Child Marriage Ban in Effect in 2025

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. (§ 37:1-6)

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry under the following conditions: if they are legally emancipated; or with the written consent of each living parent who appears on their birth certificate; or with the authorization of the district court following a petition by a parent or guardian.

 

Children under 16 years old can marry under the following conditions: with authorization from a children's or family court division of the district court; upon request of a parent or legal guardian when certain conditions are met; or when the child is pregnant, and a certified copy of the judicial authorization is filed with the county clerk. (§ 40-1-6)

 


 

 

You must be 18 years old to get married in New York State; no exceptions for minors. (§ 15-A)

 

Related: New York officially bans the marriage of minors

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry under certain conditions, provided the intended spouse is no more than 4 years their senior: if they are legally emancipated; or with the written consent of a parent or guardian; or with authorization from a district court, filed with the register of deeds. (§ 51-2, § 51-2.1, § 51-3)

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry with the written consent of one or both parents, or a legal guardian, as circumstances require. (§ 14-03-02, § 14-03-17)

 


 

 

Minors who are 17 years old can marry with approval from a juvenile court, provided the intended spouse is not more than 4 years their senior,  following a 14 calendar-day waiting period after the juvenile court’s approval is submitted to the probate court. In cases where both parties are 17 years old, only judicial approval and a waiting period apply. (§ 3101.01, § 3101.02, § 3101.04, § 3101.042). 

 


 

 

Minors between the ages of 16 and 18 years old can marry with the consent of a parent or guardian, given directly to the authority issuing the license, or provided in writing in person to a judge of the district court or the court clerk of any county within the State of Oklahoma or a judge or clerk of a court of record (if out of state).

 

Children under 16 can marry with approval from the court under special circumstances, such as pregnancy, if there is no objection from a guardian. (§ 43-3)

 


 

  • Oregon: 18 (with exceptions; no exceptions beginning 2026)

 

Effective Jan 1, 2026: You must be 18 years old to marry in Oregon; no exceptions for minors. 

 

Current law as of June 2025: Minors who are 17 years old can marry with the written consent of a parent or guardian and file an affidavit with the required information. Minors who have lived in the county for at least 6 months before applying for a license may not need a guardian’s consent, if that guardian lives out of state. (§ 106.050, § 106.060)

 

Related: Oregon Lawmakers Ban Child Marriage, Raise Marrying Age to 18

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. ( 23 § 1304)

 


 

 

Minors between the ages of 18 and 21 years old can marry with the written consent of both parents, a legal guardian, or, in the absence of a legal guardian, a court-appointed special guardian chosen by the court from among the minor’s closest relatives. If the parents or guardian refuse consent, a court may approve the marriage following a hearing. ( A 381, A 382, A 389) 

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. (§ 15-2-14)

 


 

 

Minors between the ages of 16 and 18 years old can marry with the written consent of a parent or guardian in the form of a signed affidavit given to a probate judge or other qualified officer of the court. (§ 20-1-250)

 


 

 

Minors between the ages of 16 and 18 years old can marry with the consent of at least one parent or guardian, provided they submit a notarized statement from the guardian to the county register of deeds. ( § 25-1-9, § 25-1-13)

 


 

 

Minors who are 17 years old can marry under certain circumstances: provided that the intended spouse is not more than 4 years their senior; and that their parents, guardian, next of kin, or custodian joins in the application (either in person or by submitting a sworn and notarized affidavit) and states under oath that they give their consent and that the minor is at least 17.

 

Minors who are emancipated do not need a guardian’s consent. (  § 36-3-105, § 36-3-106) 

 


 

 

Minors under 18 years old can marry if a court has granted an order ‘removing the disability of minority’ from them (ie: they are emancipated). (§ 2.101, § 2.003,  § 2.009)

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. ( 16 § 2, 16 § 36, 16 § 81)

 


 


Minors can marry with the signed consent of a custodial parent or guardian, given to a clerk in person while under oath, if the intended spouse is not more than 4 years their senior. Other approval of a court commissioner, or judge with a court of juvenile jurisdiction in the county may be required. Premarital counseling is required if available. (§81-2-304)

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. (§ 5142)

 

Related: Vermont bans the marriage of minors, effective July 1, 2023

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. (§ 20-48)

 

Related: Virginia’s Child Marriage Ban in Effect Soon, Plus Protections for Marriage Rights

 


 

 

No exceptions for minors. ( § 26.04.010, § 26.04.210,  § 26.60.030)

 

Related: Washington State Just Banned Child Marriage

 


 

 

Minors as young as 16 years old can marry if their intended spouse is no more than 4 years their senior, and these additional conditons are met: they sign documents to affirm that the marriage is entered into voluntarily and willingly; and have the written consent of both parents (or the custodial parent), or a legal guardian. (§ 48-2-301)

 


 

 

Minors between the ages of 16 and 18 years old can marry with the written consent of both parents, a custodial parent, or a legal guardian or custodian. Consent must be given in person in front of a county clerk, or notarized. If the minor has no legal guardian, the court having probate jurisdiction can give consent. (§ 765.02)

 


 

 

Minors who are 16 or 17 years old can marry with the approval of a judge and permission from a parent or guardian. Emancipated minors do not need parental consent. Minors under the age of 16 cannot marry. (§ 20-1-102)

 


 

Last updated 9/16/2025

 


 

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Jessica Levey
Jessica Levey

Lead Staff Writer & Illustrator

Jessica loves exploring the history and magic of ritual, the connections between people and places, and sharing true stories about love and commitment. She's an advocate for marriage equality, LGBTQ+ rights, and individuality, and is an ordained Minister with AMM. When she’s not writing or illustrating for AMM, she enjoys city hikes, fantasy novels, comics, and traveling.

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