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Pucker Up! Swedish Wedding 'Kissing Game' Gets Up Close & Personal

Published Tuesday, Aug. 12th, 2025


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(Photo cropped: Andrey Sayfutdinov / iStock)

For this cheeky Swedish wedding tradition, *everyone* steals a kiss from the bride - and the groom!

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One of our favorite Swedish wedding traditions – and soon to be yours – is playfully called the “kissing game.” To play, wedding guests take turns trying to sneak a kiss with the newly-married bride or groom whenever the other partner leaves the room. 

 

Imagine it: The bride makes a trip to the bathroom to refresh her makeup? Female guests quickly line up to kiss the groom! When the groom steps outside for a selfie with some friends? Male guests step up to share a playful kiss with the bride! As many kisses as possible must be shared before the missing partner returns – usually on the cheek, but not always…

 

What fun! 

 

This Swedish wedding game is a great way to get guests from both sides of the family chatting and laughing with each other, and it can certainly lighten the mood after a long wedding day.

 

Related: 10 Alternatives to “You May Now Kiss the Bride!”

 

It’s easy to update this tradition for same-sex or same-gender weddings, too. Or simply make the kissing game fully gender-neutral, by encouraging guests of all genders to kiss the newlyweds whenever the chance presents itself! 

 

Watch a funny demonstration of the Swedish wedding kissing tradition below, shared by Kerrou Photography.

 

Whether you’re looking for a fun wedding game for a traditional Swedish celebration, an unexpected multicultural wedding tradition, or just a lighthearted reception game, this cheeky Swedish kissing tradition is sure to get all your guests buzzing. 

 

So get ready: you may now kiss the bride – and the groom!

 

@kerrouphotography đź’‹ Kissing the Bride (or Groom): A Swedish Wedding Tradition đź’‹ Did you know that in Sweden, there’s a totally unexpected wedding tradition? Whenever the groom leaves the room, all the men at the wedding get a free pass to kiss the bride! And when the bride’s out, the ladies can return the favor. Have you heard of this before? #svenskt #SwedishWedding #bröllopstraditioner #weddingtraditions #BrideAndGroom #kissingthebride #bröllopsinspiration #weddinginspiration #bröllopsvideograf #DestinationWeddingSweden #nordicwedding #uniqueweddingideas #weddingmemories❤ #bröllopsplanering #swedenwedding #bröllopsfotograf #svenskatraditioner #weddingkisses ♬ original sound - Kerrouphotography


 

More Fun Wedding Traditions & Ideas from American Marriage Ministries

 


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Jessica Levey
Jessica Levey

Lead Staff Writer & Illustrator

Jessica loves exploring the history and magic of ritual, the connections between people and places, and sharing true stories about love and commitment. She's an advocate for marriage equality, LGBTQ+ rights, and individuality, and is an ordained Minister with AMM. When she’s not writing or illustrating for AMM, she enjoys city hikes, fantasy novels, comics, and traveling.

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