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Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Published Thursday, Jun. 23rd, 2022
If you’re feeling lucky in love and want your wedding ceremony to reflect that gift, consider including one of these lucky wedding traditions from around the world.
Rain showers are a lucky wedding addition in India, where Hindu tradition claims they offer brides and grooms “a blessing of wealth and fertility.” ( via WeddingWire) It sounds like Alanis Morisette might have gotten this one wrong… So go ahead and schedule that spring ceremony outdoors! Just make sure you pack an umbrella.
A little rain might lead to a lifetime of love
In Italy and Spain, grooms cut their wedding ties into small pieces following the ceremony and trade the pieces for money. This tradition is said to guarantee the happy couple’s good luck in life and love, and offers guests a small memento from the day.
Related: Italian Wedding Traditions - From Warding Off the Evil Eye at Your Ceremony to Dancing La Tarantella
Flowers have held special meanings for centuries, with many blossoms believed to bring luck and blessing to the brides that carry them. For example, in the Victorian era, holly in a bouquet was said to bring happiness to a home, orange blossoms promised eternal love and fertility, and peonies blessed newlyweds with lasting marital love. (via Lucky in Love)
Illustration from the wedding guide Lucky in Love
In England, brides are thought to be especially lucky in love if they find a spider crawling around on their wedding dress… a tradition that’s definitely not for those who are afraid of our eight-legged arachnid friends! This tradition pairs with another English superstition, which claims that killing a spider will bring swift financial ruin. (via Reader’s Digest)
Let a spider weave you a little wedding lace for luck...
Colors hold deep symbolic meaning in many cultures, and weddings often incorporate colors that are special to the couple. In Mexico, brides tuck 3 colorful ribbons into their stockings – in red, blue, and yellow – for just this reason. The red ribbon represents passion, blue represents wealth and security, and yellow represents the promise of abundance and a bountiful harvest. (via Wedessence)
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TRADITIONS, CUSTOMS, AND RITUALS TO PERSONALIZE YOUR WEDDING
Covering traditions, rituals, and superstitions from all over the world, this book brings magic and a touch of luck to your wedding!
'Lucky in Love' is a cross-cultural collection of marriage folklore to help you create your own lucky traditions with nods to each other’s heritage, customs from places you’ve visited together, and auspicious rituals that just feel special. Whether you are just engaged or only days away from tying the knot, you’ll gain insight every step of the way. Make your own luck in love!
Written by Eleni N. Gage, an AMM Minister and former Executive Editor at Martha Stewart Weddings magazine. Illustrated by Emily Isabella.
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