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Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Published Thursday, Apr. 28th, 2022
From the Gateway Arch to the Ozarks, Missouri offers romantic backdrops of every kind. And considering the state’s love of food, music, and family, it’s easy to see why this Midwestern destination is a top choice for weddings.
Applying for a marriage license in the Show-Me State will look different in each county, so it’s important to get a head start on the planning process to avoid unnecessary stress. With this in mind, we’ve compiled a short guide to help you begin.
Beautiful Grand Falls in Joplin, MO, a city in Jasper and Newton counties
Got one? Whew! There will be a few more boxes to check, but the hardest part’s over.
A wedding officiant is the person who conducts your ceremony and signs the marriage license, making things legal.
A friend or relative can perform your wedding ceremony if they’ve been ordained.
If you want to hire a professional, the state has many qualified independent officiants to choose from. The following people are authorized to solemnize marriage in Missouri:
Any active or retired clergyman who is in good standing with any church or synagogue in this state; by any judge; by a religious society, institution, or organization of this state, according to their regulations and customs, when either party to the marriage to be solemnized is a member of such society, institution or organization. (§ 451.100)
(Find more Missouri marriage laws here.)
Indoor or outdoor, Missouri has incredible wedding venues for every taste and style!
Missouri is home to the Pony Express, the best barbeque, epic architecture and acres of rich farmland, not to mention all the fun to be had in thriving cities like Kansas City, St. Louis, and Springfield – making it a favorite for destination weddings.
Whether you’re dreaming of a big to-do or a romantic elopement for two, there’s something for everyone!
Popular dates, venues, and officiants book up fast, so start early. And remember you’ll need permission (and a permit) to use a public space, such as a city park or recreational area. Permits can take weeks to process, so factor this into your timeline, too.
Alright, time to make sure your wedding’s legal! We’ll break down each part of the marriage license process, one step at a time:
You’ll apply for your marriage license through the Recorder of Deeds (Recorder's Office). Some counties require you to begin your application online by visiting the county website, and you may need to make an appointment for your visit.
Couples can apply for a license 3-6 months in advance of their wedding day, but will not be issued a license until 30 days before the ceremony. You don’t need to be a Missouri resident to marry there.
Requirements to Apply:
If you’re planning a wedding anywhere in Missouri, we recommend contacting the county clerk closest to your venue to learn more.
The cost of your marriage license will vary by county, from around $48 to $62. Some offices will only accept cash or credit card (with an additional small fee), so plan ahead! There’s no fee to register your marriage after the ceremony.
There is no waiting period between the time your license is issued and when your ceremony can take place.
A Missouri marriage license can be used in any county in the state, and expires 30 days after it’s issued.
The license must be signed by each party to the marriage and the marriage officiant following the ceremony, and returned by the marriage officiant to the Recorder of Deeds Office. (We’ll cover this more below.)
The license must be returned within 15 days of the wedding ceremony.
Remember: Your marriage license must be returned within 15 days of your ceremony
Once you’ve chosen a date, a venue, and have your marriage license details worked out, you’ll be ready to meet with your wedding officiant to plan the ceremony!
This is when things start to come into focus. You’ll talk about the tone of your ceremony, the ‘vibe’ you want to create for your guests, and any special elements and unity rituals you want to include. You and your officiant might meet a few more times to exchange more ideas, fine-tune a script, or rehearse the ceremony leading up to the wedding day.
AMM’s website is full of resources to help you decide what kind of ceremony you want, tips on working well with your officiant, and advice on keeping your ceremony authentic and on budget.
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The stunning Gateway Arch in St. Louis, Missouri
Aside from yourselves, the most important thing you’ll bring with you on the wedding day is your marriage license -- because no license means no marriage. Your officiant won’t be able to perform the wedding without having a license present (even if you have it at home), so make sure it’s with you.
After the ceremony, you and your officiant will sign the license.
For tips on how to complete the license, head here.
Once it’s signed, you must record it with the local county before the end of the 30 day expiration period. Check with your county for details.
Once it’s been recorded, you’re officially married!
Congratulations! You're married!
We’ve got everything you need to understand the state’s licensing and registration requirements, any ministry credentials and paperwork you might need, and helpful tips for several cities in the state, including Columbia, Independence, Kansas City, Springfield, and St Louis.
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