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Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Published Tuesday, Jul. 15th, 2025
Beginning August 28th, 2025, you must be at least 18 years old to get married in Missouri.
Governor Kehoe signed a bill last week that repeals provisions which allowed 16 and 17 year old children to marry a partner 21 or younger if they had a parent or guardian’s permission - raising the legal age to marry in Missouri to 18 without exceptions.
This legislation (MO SB43) was widely supported by lawmakers from both political parties, with the exception of a few Republican legislators who spoke out against raising the marriage age.
This strong bipartisan support reflects increasing awareness of the potential harms of underage marriage, especially on young girls. Studies show that girls who marry under the age of 18 have a higher risk of pregnancy complications and dying during childbirth; and a higher risk of contracting HIV and other STIs. Underage marriage can also come with higher poverty rates, fewer educational achievements, limited access to healthcare, poor mental health, and limited future prospects when compared to those who marry later.
Despite these risks, an estimated “300,000 children [were] married in the United States (U.S.) between 2000 and 2018,” 96% of whom were 16 or 17 years old, and 78% of whom were underage girls marrying adult men. (Reiss, 2021)
The frequency of underage marriage has declined in recent years, thanks in part to the efforts of legislators. For example, Oregon’s marriage age was raised to 18 earlier this year, and Washington’s marriage age was raised to 18 in 2024. Several other states have also banned child marriage in recent years, including Virginia, the District of Columbia, and Michigan.
Missouri’s new marriage age of 18 will go into effect on August 28th, 2025.
Including Missouri, underage marriage is now illegal in 18 states and territories (at the time of writing):
Connecticut, Delaware, District of Columbia, Maine, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Puerto Rico, Rhode Island, Vermont, Virginia, and Washington.
Learn More: How Old Do You Have To Be To Get Married In Each State?
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Raising the legal marriage age in Missouri will not impact the role of AMM Ministers who solemnize marriage there. Because marriage licenses are issued by the clerk’s office, it will be the clerk’s responsibility to confirm that each person is old enough to get married when they issue the license.
However, all ministers who perform marriage ceremonies should confirm the names of the people they’re marrying before the wedding. This can be done by comparing a person’s government-issued ID or photo ID card to the name printed on their marriage license.
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