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Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Published Thursday, Jan. 30th, 2025
What happens when two bird lovers decide to tie the knot? They plan a whimsical bird themed wedding with all their feathered friends on the guest list!
Whether you’re avid birdwatchers, nature enthusiasts, or simply flying high on the wings of love, this list of bird theme wedding ideas will help make your imagination take flight.
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Grab your birding binoculars and change into some comfy shoes for a pre-wedding birdwatching hike with friends! Or meet up after the reception for a relaxing outdoor afterparty. (Photo: ASphotowed / iStock)
During a pre-wedding hike or after the reception, head outside for a birdwatching party with friends! If your venue is surrounded by interesting birdlife, this activity will be a dream come true. Keep a checklist of all the species you spot as a unique wedding day memento. Be sure to let guests know to bring a pair of sensible shoes to change into for this outdoor adventure.
And if you already know the bird species that are common near your venue, print out a birdwatching checklist to place on the welcome table or reception tables for guests. See who can spot the most birds throughout the wedding day!
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One of the most unexpected wedding trends we’ve seen lately is to have a barn owl, hawk, or falcon to serve as your ring bearer! These winged guests arrive on the arm of a falconer and then swoop forward to deliver your wedding rings during the ring exchange.
Having a bird of prey in the wedding party is not without risks, but the impact is undeniable! You can hire these romantic raptors just for the ceremony, or pay extra to have in wedding photos with guests during the reception.
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Trained owls for weddings? You bet! Wedding owls add a magical touch to any ceremony, but especially a bird lovers or wizardly Harry Potter themed wedding. (Photo: VEX Collective / iStock)
Don’t want to hire an owl for the wedding day? Transform your ring bearer or flower girl into adorable wedding fledglings with cute bird costumes! These young helpers can flap their way down the aisle dressed as owls or hawks, blue birds or eagles, ducklings or crows, cardinals or wedding wrens – bringing joy to everyone in attendance.
And if there will be a lot of children at your wedding, why not give all of them the option to dress in a cute bird costume, instead of those inevitably-uncomfortable wedding outfits? Imagine the photo opportunities at an outdoor wedding!
Related: 8 Creative Alternatives to a Flower Girl or Ring Bearer for Your Wedding Ceremony
Put a sweet spin on the ‘sweetheart table’ wedding custom with a ‘tweetheart table.’ A sweetheart table is a small table at a wedding reception that’s just for the couple, giving the newlyweds a chance to take a break from socializing for a few minutes. Place a small sign on the table reserving it for the tweethearts – that’s you!
Plan a sweetheart table that's for the (love) birds: with charming bird candles, love bird statutes, and a reserved sign just for the newlyweds. (Photo: DBC / iStock)
Your friends are thrilled that you’re getting married, but they probably don’t need another wedding magnet… The best wedding favors are items your guests can use or consume, because they won’t end up in the back of a drawer or cluttering up a bookcase.
Add cute bird themed sayings to any of your paper products – your custom wedding napkins, save the dates, wedding invitations, table markers, seating place cards, thank you cards, or wedding welcome sign. Consider familiar phrases like “we’re birds of a feather,” “this way to the love birds,” “two night owls in love,” “we’re cuckoo for each other,” “love takes flight,” “on the wings of love” – you get the idea!
Related: Creative Save the Date Wording & Designs for Your Wedding
Look at these sweet bird theme wedding invitations! Personalize your invites and save the dates with your names, wedding date, location, and favorite bird-inspired puns or phrases. (This example was created using a free Adobe Express wedding invitation template.)
Embrace the theme with a decorative bird cage in place of a traditional card box! A wedding card box is a container where guests can place cards and monetary gifts (gift cards or cash placed in envelopes) during the reception. A birdcage is the perfect substitute for an ordinary, with slats that are just right to slip a card through! Choose a vintage wooden or wire bird cage and adorn it with flowers and foliage, and a small sign that says “cards.”
Give your wedding reception an earthy, ethereal, and whimsical feel with unique bird themed centerpieces and natural accents. Some of these fun ideas can be DIY, or commission a local artist or vendor to help you bring the vision to life!
(Photo: boggy22 / iStock)
Add a unconventional touch to the dessert table with bird themed wedding cakes featuring your favorite feathered friends. These sweet treats are perfect for lovebirds like you, and they can fit seamlessly into any style wedding day – elegant, casual, modern, or traditional – without needing any other big changes to the decor.
Last but not least, throwing birdseed at weddings is a sweet bird-friendly alternative to the traditional rice toss. Although rice isn’t bad for birds at weddings, birdseed can be a better choice. (Just be sure to choose bird food that’s appropriate for the local wild birdlife, and ok it with the venue before handing it out to guests.)
If you have birds as pets, you might want to include them in the wedding celebration! Your beloved bird/s can join you as you walk down the aisle, pose in wedding photos, and even 'participate' in a family handfasting or unity painting if they're especially clever. To get started, choose a pet-friendly wedding venue, and ask about birds specifically (in case of allergies and other considerations).
(Photo: Aiman Dairabaeva / iStock)
Good things happen when friends and relatives help out at the wedding ceremony! Having a friend officiate your wedding is more affordable than hiring a professional officiant, and a great way to ensure the wedding day is as intimate and personal as it can be. When a loved one officiates, every moment means more!
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Officiating weddings is an incredible honor, and a great way to show your love and support for the people getting married. As a wedding officiant, you will help to create memorable ceremonies and memories that last a lifetime.
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