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Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Stay up to date with the latest wedding ceremony trends, script writing inspiration, tips and advice for first-time officiants, and news that matters to couples and wedding ministers.
Published Thursday, Oct. 5th, 2023
In search of colorful children’s books that show sweet examples of same-sex marriage and diverse LGBTQ+ families? Maybe even one or two that show kids what they can expect at a wedding ceremony?
The six picture books below offer diverse representations of family, love, and marriage, with funny gay uncles, loving lesbian moms, and even two perfectly-paired earthworms!
There’s a little nonfiction in the mix, including the real-life story of America’s first gay wedding, along with plenty of imagination, magic, and happily ever after.
Written by Rob Sanders; Illustrated by Robbie Cathro
An inspiring nonfiction children’s book about the early days of marriage equality in the U.S.! This beautifully illustrated book tells the story of Jack Baker and Michael McConnell, who were the first gay couple to be legally married in the country.
Follow along as Jack and Michael meet one starry night at a party, fall in love, overcome discrimination, and finally celebrate their marriage in a sweet wedding ceremony with loved ones. Baking-themed illustrations make this story especially sweet, and the detailed marriage equality timeline and history notes included in the back pages are icing on the cake!
Illustrations from Two Grooms on a Cake
Written by Peter Parnell and Justin Richardson; Illustrated by Henry Cole
And Tango Makes Three offers a good introduction to same-gender love, adoption, and diverse families. This fun picture book tells the true story of two male penguins, Roy and Silo, who formed a pair bond in New York's Central Park Zoo in the early 2000s.
This cute penguin pair fall in love, ‘adopt’ an egg, and hatch a cute baby chick named Tango – completing their happy family and delighting zookeepers and guests.
Illustrations from And Tango Makes Three
This colorfully-illustrated modern fairy tale is sure to become a classic! Although the prince’s parents introduce him to dozens of damsels in the hopes of finding him a bride, he can’t seem to find anyone that’s quite his type… until he meets the knight.
This story has it all, including misplaced matchmaking, an epic dragon battle, queer love at first sight, supportive parents and friends, and a royal wedding!
Watch this video read-along of Prince and Knight!
This heartwarming children’s story about a young girl and her uncle helps kids understand what a wedding is about, and what they can expect during the weeks leading up to the ceremony. It was produced in coordination with GLAAD and was featured on the American Library Association’s 2021 Rainbow Book List.
When Chloe finds out that her favorite Uncle Bobby is marrying his boyfriend Jamie, she’s worried he won’t have time to hang out with her anymore. But Bobby and Jamie put her mind at ease in the weeks leading up to the wedding by spending time together and having fun as a family. The day of the wedding, Chloe helps out with the ceremony and the family has a wonderful time celebrating!
Illustrations from Uncle Bobby's Wedding
Written by Leslea Newman; Illustrated by Laura Cornell
This timeless children’s book was first published in 1989, and a colorful version with new illustrations and an updated story was released in 2016. It tells the tale of two loving mothers and their daughter, Heather.
One day, Heather is asked to draw a picture of her family in class, and notices that all of her classmates’ families are unique and perfect in their own way – just like hers! This book offers great representation of diverse family structures, loving parents, and acceptance of others.
Illustrations from Heather Has Two Mommies
Written by J. J. Austrian; Illustrated by Mike Curato
When Worm meets Worm, it’s a match made in heaven! This lighthearted story about two earthworms who fall in love and get married with the help of their insect friends offers important messages about gender, inclusivity, friendship, and family.
The worms’ pal Cricket serves as an enthusiastic wedding officiant, joined by Best Beetle, the Bride’s Bees, a lively Ant Band, and more, for a fun, festive, and gender-nonconforming wedding celebration!
Watch this video read-along of Worm Loves Worm!
Instead of a flower girl or ring bearer: Creative ideas for a non-traditional wedding procession! Read the full article here.
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