Lori Prashker-Thomas, CPWO

OFFICIANT: Good evening. It is my pleasure to welcome you to the wedding of Robert and Vanessa. Please take a moment to silence any cell phones.

Before we begin, we would like to take a moment to remember Rob’s Father, Robert Jensen, Sr., whose legacy is faithfully carried on in our groom. Although not physically present, his love and support are still with you today.

Today is a celebration. A celebration of love, of commitment, of friendship, of family, and of two people who are in it for forever.

You don't have to have a ceremony to have a marriage. So why do we do it? The marriage ceremony has been an important feature across nearly every culture, religion, generation, and society. We have thousands of important moments that happen throughout our lives, but this one is regarded as one so critical, we acknowledge its special status by sharing it with others. Why this moment?

Because despite all of our differences, love is what we all share. It's the great unifier — our one universal truth. That no matter who we are, where we've come from, what we believe, we know this one thing: love is what we're doing right. That's why you both are standing here. That's why you all are here to watch them stand up here. We have all loved in our lifetimes, and in this moment, we're reminded that the ability to love is the very best part of our humanity.

We all have our own love stories. Some are short, others long. Some are yet unwritten, while others are just getting to the good part. There are chapters in all of our stories that are sad or disappointing — and others that are exciting and full of adventure.

And that brings them here. A time to pause, look back, and smile at all the moments that brought them here. And a time to look ahead at all the moments that are still to come.

I'm here — we are all here — because we want those moments for you two. We are here to hope with you, to support you, to be proud of you, and to remind you that love isn't happily ever after, love is the experience of writing your story. It's not one moment — not even this moment. It's every moment. Big ones like saying "I love you," moving in together, getting engaged — but mostly a million little ones that come in between the big moments. falling asleep next to one another, making dinner together, spending holidays with your families, road-tripping together, getting a big hug when you get home from work… These everyday moments fuse together into one big experience.

And even though this experience is so incredible, words fail us when we try and explain it. That's just the way it is with love — it's meant to be felt, not described.

OFFICIANT: You fell in love by chance, but you're here today because you're making a choice. You both are choosing each other. You've chosen to be with someone who enhances you, who makes you think, makes you smile, and makes every day brighter.

You're about to make promises to each other that you intend to keep. You're going to vow to take care of each other, to stand up for one another, and find happiness in the other. There's a simple premise to each of these promises: you're vowing to be there. You're teaming up and saying to the other, "Every experience I am going to have, I want you to be a part of."

Will you, Robert, keep Vanessa as your bride — to laugh with her, go on adventures with her, support her through life's tough moments, be proud of her, grow old with her, and find new reasons to love her every day?

Robert: I will.

OFFICIANT: Will you, Vanessa keep Robert as your groom — to laugh with him, go on adventures with him, support him through life's tough moments, be proud of him, grow old with him, and find new reasons to love him every day?

Vanessa: I will.

OFFICIANT: Will you, Robert & Vanessa, be each other's partners in life from this day forward? Will you bring out the best in one another, share your happiest moments together, and love each other absolutely — for the rest of this lifetime and for whatever may come next?

Robert & Vanessa: We will.

OFFICIANT: Robert and Vanessa, you have just made a life-long commitment to share the rest of your lives with each other, yet the journey is not yours alone, for you have been blessed with beautiful children, Isabella, Hannah, Robert, and Christian. It is the strength of your love that shall nourish you all together as a family.

OFFICIANT: Will all of you witnessing these promises do all in your power to uphold Robert, Vanessa, Isabella, Hannah, Robert and Christian in the marriage and as a family? If so, answer "we will."

Ring exchange

OFFICIANT: You’ve both chosen to wear rings as a reminder of these promises. The circles formed by each ring symbolizes your eternal love and commitment to one another. Let these rings remind you always of that love and of promises you have made here on this day.

Please repeat after me:

Robert: Vanessa, I give you this ring/ as a symbol of my love. As it encircles your finger, /may it remind you always/ that you are surrounded by my enduring love.

Vanessa: Robert, I give you this ring/ as a symbol of my love. As it encircles your finger, /may it remind you always/ that you are surrounded by my enduring love.

Officiant: Robert & Vanessa, you have just sealed your relationship by the giving and receiving of rings and you have committed to share the rest of your lives with each other.

And now I get to say something you’ve been looking forward to hearing for a long time. By the powers vested in me by the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania, I now pronounce you married. Robert, You may now kiss your wife.