Anika S. Benson

INVOCATION.

Family, Friends, and Loved Ones,

We are gathered here today in the presence of God and as witnesses to celebrate the marriage of Sirgba and Francisco Jr. in holy matrimony. Surrounded by your love and support, we come together in this beautiful place to share in their joy as they begin their new life together as one.

To the Parents of the Bride

Officiant:

Today, we will witness the coming together of not only FRANCISCO and SIRGBA but also their families. To honor the impact their families have had on their lives. 

FOB- Mr. Koluboi

I want to ask! Do you give your blessing to the union of Sirgba and Francisco?

Answer:

Note: Francisco shakes hands with Mr. K takes Sirgba's hand and faces each other

The Love Story👩🏽‍❤️‍👨🏽

How it All Began

Sirgba and Francisco’s story began on October 20, 2015, at Franklin Mills Mall. Francisco didn’t just sell Sirgba a cell phone accessory; he captured her attention with his charm and warmth., From that encounter, a friendship grew, and by January 1, 2016, their bond deepened as they officially became a couple, committed to building a future together.

What Francisco Loves About Sirgba
 Francisco adores Sirgba’s vibrant personality and radiant smile. Her love for family and the joyful moments she creates through shared experiences inspire him. Her nurturing spirit, intelligence, and care for his son, Reycito, made him certain she was meant to be his wife and partner for life.

What Sirgba Loves About Francisco
 unconditional support and humor make every day brighter for Sirgba, even in challenging times. His generosity, devotion to family, and deep love for Reycito fill her heart with gratitude, knowing she has found a loving husband and partner.

Their Love Story
Over 9 years, Sirgba and Francisco have built a relationship rooted in trust, love, and shared dreams. Together, they’ve created a life filled with resilience, joy, and unwavering commitment as they grow closer as partners and as a family.

TO THE BRIDE & GROOM📜

Sirgba and Francisco The contract of marriage is most solemn and is not to be entered into lightly, but thoughtfully and seriously with a deep realization of its obligations and responsibilities.

It demands love, loyalty, communication, understanding, forgiveness, and a commitment to stand by each other, no matter what life brings. These are the foundations of a happy and enduring home. No other human ties are more tender, and no other vows are more important than those you are about to pledge.

The READING🙏🏽

Love is Patient, Love is Kind. 

It does not Envy or Boast, 

It is not Proud, Rude, Self-Seeking, or Easily Angered, 

It Keeps No Record of Wrongs. 

Love does not delight in evil but Rejoices with the Truth. 

It Always Protects, Trusts, Hopes and

Always Perseveres. PER SEVERE

1 Corinthians, 13: 4-7 

Declaration of Intent

I ask you both 

OFFICIANT (to FRANCISCO)  

FRANCISCO do you take Sirgba to be your lawfully wedded wife?

Will you respect, honor, and cherish her; love, trust, and commit to her,

through joy and pain, in sickness and in health,

and whatever life may throw at you both,

until death do you part?

 FRANCISO answer:

OFFICIANT (to Sirgba)

SIRGBA Do you take Francisco Jr. to be your lawfully wedded husband?

Will you respect, honor, and cherish him; love, trust, and commit to him,

through joy and pain, in sickness and in health,

and whatever life may throw at you both

until death do you part?

Sirgba Answer:

RING EXCHANGE & VOWS 💍

NOTE: Please place the Rings in the Wedding Officiant’s Hand. To be blessed

The exchange of rings represents your commitment to each other,

an unbroken circle of love. Let these rings remind you of the vows you've made

and this cherished moment.

(Rings are blessed by the officiant)

"Bless these rings, O Lord, and grant that Sirgba and Francisco, who GIVE them and WEAR them, may always live in faithfulness to each other, unity, love, and happiness. May they abide in Your peace and favor, in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen."

NOTE: Place the ring halfway up the ring finger; when you’re finished repeat after me. Push the ring up each other finger

REPEAT AFTER ME

I, Francisco Ricardo Jr. With this ring, give you my heart.

I promise to love and commit to you for life.

I'll be there for you, be honest and faithful only to you.

Together, we'll face life's challenges.

This ring is a token of my constant faithfulness and love.

My HEART will be your Shelter, and my ARMS will be your Home.

REPEAT AFTER ME

I, Sirgba Koluboi With this ring, give you my heart.

I promise to love and commit to you for life.

I'll be there for you, be honest and faithful only to you.

Together, we'll face life's challenges.

This ring is a token of my constant faithfulness and love.

My HEART will be your Shelter, and my ARMS will be your Home.

Signing the Marriage Certificate 📝

Now, as part of the legal proceedings, Francisco and Sirgba will sign their marriage certificate. This document represents your commitment to each other and the legal acknowledgment of your union. Please invite your two chosen witnesses, to join you for this important moment.

Both sisters witness

At this moment, we will transition to the

The Sand Ceremony ⏳

Officiant:
"Today, we celebrate the union of SIRGBA and FRANCISCO and the blending of their family.

The Sand Ceremony symbolizes the joining of YOUR lives into one.

Each of you has a container of sand, representing your unique qualities and love. As you pour your sand into the central vase, it signifies the unity of your family, never to be separated."


“Reycito your sand represents the love and joy you bring to this family."
(Son pours his sand.)


"Francisco your sand symbolizes your commitment and strength in this union."
(Groom pours his sand.)


"Sirgba your sand reflects your love, trust, and devotion to this family."
(Bride pours her sand.)

"Now, as you pour your remaining sand together, it represents the creation of a family bond that is inseparable."

(All three pour their sand together.)

The officiant holds sand for guests to see

"This vase is a lasting reminder of your unity and the love you share as a family. May it always inspire you to cherish and support one another."

Pronouncement 🫶🏽

Francisco and Sirgba, having proclaimed your love and commitment to each other in the presence of God and your loved ones, and by the authority vested in me by the American Marriage Ministry and the State of Pennsylvania, it is my greatest joy and privilege to pronounce you husband and wife!

The Kiss

You may now seal your union with a kiss. 😘

Closing Remarks to the family & friends

FRANCISCO and SIRGBA turn to their family & friends/guests. 

May FRANCISCO and SIRGBA's life journey together be blessed with steadfast support and lasting love; we pray that God will continuously guide their paths both individually and as husband and wife. 

It is my honor to present, you for the first time as

Husband and Wife

MR. & MRS. RICARDO