Barry Robert Higgins

Welcome, family, friends and loved ones.

We are gathered here to celebrate the union of (Benjamin Higgins) and (Anna Eismark). Each of us has had a role in helping them along the path that has led to this joyful occasion. Whether as a family member, friend or mentor—or whatever role we have played in their lives—our influence has touched their individual journeys, and we celebrate with them as they now join their lives together, forever.

I ask you to pledge your continued love and support as (Benjamin Higgins) and (Anna Eismark) enter this new adventure. Let us—together—nurture, advise and console them, celebrating each achievement and standing with them during challenging times. Though our relationships will continue to evolve, the bonds we have forged endure.

(Benjamin) and (Anna), we welcome you to this moment in your lives and to the place you have earned in each other’s hearts. We join with you on this day, as you commit before everyone present that from this point forward you shall live as one.

In childhood, each new discovery was a miracle to you:

A butterfly emerging from its cocoon

The first snowfall of winter and the first buds of spring

The revelation that letters form words, and words are the portal to a universe of knowledge,

The soothing reassurance after a tearful disappointment that all will be well.

MOMENT OF REMEMBRANCE

Let us take a moment to remember those who can’t be with us today, either because of distance or because they have gone before us. In particular, Benjamin’s Grand Mothers and Fathers who have passed and Anna’s Family that cannot be here with us today because of distance.

Though they may not be physically present here, today, they remain with us in spirit—for they are linked forever with our lives and our shared memories.

DECLARATION OF INTENT

(Benjamin Higgins) and (Anna Eismark), do you now commit to forging a life together—to the difficult yet endlessly rewarding adventure of creating a new family from your intersecting lives?