Kristin Irene Jensen

PROCESSION

CEREMONY BEGINS.

INVOCATION

OFFICIANT

Welcome, family, friends and loved ones. We are gathered here to celebrate the union of Marcia and Dylan. Each of us has had a role in helping them along the path that has led to this joyful occasion. Whether as a family member, friend or mentor—or whatever role we have played in their lives—our influence has touched their individual journeys, and we celebrate with them as they now join their lives together, forever.

I ask you to pledge your continued love and support as they enter this new adventure. Let us—together—nurture, advise and console them, celebrating each achievement and standing with them during challenging times. Though our relationships will continue to evolve, the bonds we have forged endure.

OFFICIANT / PARENT TO THE COUPLE

Marcia and Dylan, we welcome you to this moment in your lives and to the place you have earned in each other’s hearts. We join with you on this day, as you commit before everyone present that from this point forward you shall live as one.

In childhood, each new discovery was a miracle to you:

A butterfly emerging from its cocoon

The first snowfall of winter and the first buds of spring

The revelation that letters form words, and words are the portal to a universe of knowledge

The soothing reassurance after a tearful disappointment that all will be well

MOMENT OF REMEMBRANCE

Let us take a moment to remember those who can’t be with us today, either because of distance or because they have gone before us. In particular, we lift up Marcia’s grandfather Chris Jensen and father Jon Miller, friends and family in Crescent City

Though they may not be physically present here, today, they remain with us in spirit—for they are linked forever with our lives and our shared memories.

DECLARATION OF INTENT

Marcia and Dylan do you now commit to forging a life together—to the difficult yet endlessly rewarding adventure of creating a new family from your intersecting lives?

(Together) We do!

ON FAMILY & MARRIAGE

When you were little, your families were your whole world. Everyone you knew and loved, everything you experienced, was part of a cozy circle centered around your home.

Then you went to school, and your universe widened to include other children and adults. They learned and played with you; instructed and counseled you; helped you find the tools that would allow you to find your own way in a world of growing complexity. As your activities and interests expanded, so did the circle of those who would continue to influence and protect you. What began as your parents’ role was now the collective duty of your burgeoning community.

You grew more independent and ranged farther from home. You developed new friends and involvements. Eventually, you found each other! We marvel at the loving connection you two have made, and we are grateful for having had a role in preparing you for that ongoing miracle.

As you move together through an intricately beautiful world—one that can be inspiring and daunting by turns—please remember the journeys that led you to become the unique individuals that you each are, and that now have led you to each other.

EXCHANGE OF RINGS AND VOWS

May I have the rings, please?

THE GUEST PLACES THE RINGS IN OFFICIANT’S OPEN PALM.

OFFICIANT TO ALL

Marcia and Dylan have chosen to exchange rings as a sign of their commitment.

OFFICIANT TO THE COUPLE

Let these perfect circles symbolize the path you set upon together: endless and open, gleaming and priceless.

May you wear them always as a reminder of the unbreakable bond you share. Let the timeless beauty of their precious metal recall the love of the families, friends and mentors who helped forge in you a core of confidence and compassion.

OFFICIANT

Marcia, please place Dylan’s ring on HIS finger and make your vow to HIM.

PARTNER A PLACES THE RING AND RECITES THEIR VOWS

OFFICIANT

Dylan, please place Marcia’s rings on HER finger and make your vow to HER.

PARTNER B PLACES THE RING AND RECITES THEIR VOWS

PRONOUNCEMENT

By the power vested in me by the State of California and American Marriage Ministries, and through the witness of all here present, I now pronounce you HUSBAND AND WIFE.

You may exchange a sign of your affection.

THE COUPLE KISS.

RECESSIONAL

It is my pleasure to present, for the first time as a married couple, Dylan and Marcia Jackson-Miller