Kevin J McLaughlin

Dearly Beloved and Honored Guests,

We are gathered together here to join Richard Leerkes and Denise McLaughlin in the spiritual union of marriage.

This contract is not to be entered into lightly but thoughtfully and seriously, and with a deep realization of its obligations and responsibilities. Please remember that love, loyalty, and understanding are the foundations of a happy and enduring home.

'Opposites Attract' Theme Wedding Ceremony Script

By Karen E. Reynolds

This original wedding ceremony script celebrates the passion, excitement, and authenticity of a marriage between two unique and independent spirits. Embrace your 'opposites attract' love story with this heartfelt script, including a heartfelt invocation, declaration of intent, and personal vow exchange, written by ordained AMM Minister Karen E. Reynolds.

This original wedding ceremony script was written by AMM Minister Karen E. Reynolds. 

Life is a lot more fun and when 'opposites attract'! This heartfelt officiant script reflects on the excitement and authenticity of two unique and independent people joining together in marriage, embracing their differences, and celebrating their true love. 

PROCESSIONAL

Beginning of the Wedding Ceremony.

OFFICIANT SHOULD REMIND THE GUESTS TO RISE. FOLLOWING THE ENTRANCE OF THE COUPLE, OFFICIANT SHOULD REMIND GUESTS TO BE SEATED.

IF SOMEONE IS ESCORTING THE BRIDE DOWN THE AISLE, THEN THE OFFICIANT SHALL ASK: WHO BRINGS THIS WOMAN TO BE MARRIED TODAY? ESCORT RESPONSE: "IT IS MY HONOR", "HER FATHER".

Remind guests to be seated once bride and groom have entered; front and centered.

INVOCATION

OFFICIANT TO THE GUESTS 

Welcome family, friends, and loved ones gathered here today in witness of the joining of Richard Leerkes and Denise McLaughlin in matrimony. On behalf of the couple, thank you for supporting them, today, and always. 

When it comes to compatibility, most tend to think of the similarities between two people. But part of what makes life so interesting and exciting are the differences. What often attracts us to someone is that which makes them most unique, and a perfect love isn't determined by similar experiences or interests.

Opposites often attract in exciting and beautiful ways, complimenting one another's lives rather than overshadowing, and the promise to live, love, and be as one does not decrease a person's individuality.

Today, we celebrate the union in marriage of Richard and Denise, two people who, on the surface, may appear different as night and day. Yet they are fully aligned on what truly matters; Commitment. Respect. Trust. Communication.  And a love deep enough to share a common path, while also appreciating and flourishing in their differences. 

Richard and Denise; Never underestimate the security that comes with knowing, as you continue to be your own person, you will also enjoy the strength of your two hearts having been joined as one. As you take this step, I ask that you continue to grow and build upon the love that brought you here today. 

OFFICIANT TO THE COUPLE

Richard and Denise, please join hands.

OFFICIANT TO: RICHARD

Do you enter into this union of your own free will, vowing to take Denise as your one true love, and wife, in all that life brings to your journey and from this day forward? 

RICHARD:

I do.

OFFICIANT TO: DENISE

Do you enter into this union of your own free will, vowing to take RICHARD as your one true love, and husband, in all that life brings to your journey and from this day forward?

DENISE:

I do.

EXCHANGE OF RINGS

OFFICIANT TO THE GUESTS

RICHARD and DENISE have chosen to exchange rings as an outward symbol of their love and commitment. These rings represent an endless promise, never to be broken, and will serve as a daily reminder of the vows they take today. 

OFFICIANT TO [RICHARD]

RICHARD, please place the ring on DENISE's finger and repeat after me: 

I give you this ring, along with my promise to stand beside you and with you, accepting you as you are and celebrating your spirit.

I promise to be worthy of your trust and will give you my trust in return.

I will love you until the end of our days and vow to be faithful in heart, mind, and body.

With this ring, I thee wed.

OFFICIANT TO [DENISE]

DENISE, please place the ring on RICHARD's finger and repeat after me: 

I give you this ring, along with my promise to stand beside you and with you, accepting you as you are and celebrating your spirit.

I promise to be worthy of your trust and will give you my trust in return.

I will love you until the end of our days and vow to be faithful in heart, mind, and body.

With this ring, I thee wed.

According to the powers vested in me by the American Marriage Ministries, I now pronounce you Husband and Wife for life.

You may now seal this joining with a kiss. 

OFFICIANT TO GUESTS

It is my pleasure and privilege to introduce for the first time as a married couple, RICHARD and DENISE LEERKES. 

By the authority vested in me by American Marriage Ministries and the State of New York, I now pronounce you husband and wife!

END OF CEREMONY