Paul Joseph Robarts

INVOCATION to the guests…

Dearly Beloved – Friends & Family – Honored Guests,

What greater thing than for 2 persons to feel they are joined together??

 to strengthen each other in labor

 to rest on each other in sorrow

 to help each other in times of need

 to share joy

 and to be one with each other -- whatever life has to offer.

This is a special time of celebration that Nicholas and Nicole will long remember, and because of this, they are thankful you are here today to share their joy.

Their story is familiar to us, yet, not typical. They held hands in high school and grew to;

love – trust – respect – and honor each other when most teenagers struggle to find joy in anything!

Through their college years, their dedication and commitment further strengthened this foundation and planted seeds for a lifetime of joyful companionship. And these bonds, this admiration Nicholas and Nicole share for each other, allows them to share similar careers and a true purpose in their lives. I believe that LAW ENFORCEMENT does not define this young couple – it enriches them.

But as truly amazing their story is… their truest journey begins today.

We are gathered here to join Nicole & Nicholas in the spiritual union of marriage. This contract is not to be taken lightly but thoughtfully and seriously, and with a deep realization of its’ obligations and responsibilities.

Remember, that love, loyalty, and understanding are the foundations of a happy home!

“True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond the external, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding.” — Ellen G. White

“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye. __ Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"Before you marry a person you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet to see who they really are." —Will Ferrell, actor

INVOCATION to the newlyweds

Nicole and Nicholas, today begins a life of giving and sharing, nurturing and support, allowing each other the freedom to change and grow as individuals while developing your mutual spirit as time goes by.

In the art of marriage, the little things are the BIG things. It is about establishing a relationship in which the independence is crucial, dependence is mutual, and the obligation is reciprocal.

Today your family and friends are gathered together to celebrate your union. And we are privileged to witness two very dear friends -- two very exceptional – gifted -- and driven individuals, committed to sharing a lifetime together.

 Nicholas and Nicole, you are about to make your promises to one another. You will find that as you live by these vows over the years, investing your time, love, and your commitment to one another, the happy times of your life will be twice as joyous because you will share these joys in marriage.

 Nicholas, will you take Nicole, whose hand you hold, choosing her alone to be your lawfully wedded wife? Will you live with her in the state with of true matrimony? Will you love her and comfort her through good times and bad, in sickness and in health, honoring her at all times, and being faithful to her?

RESPONSE: “I do”

Nicole, will you take Nicholas, whose hand you hold, choosing her alone to be your lawfully wedded wife? Will you live with her in the state with of true matrimony? Will you love her and comfort her through good times and bad, in sickness and in health, honoring her at all times, and being faithful to her?

RESPONSE: “I do”

VOWS

 at this time Nicole and Nicholas wish to share their personal vows for all to witness. Nicole… will you go first?

RING EXCHANGE

“Now for the rings… an unbroken circle, represents unending love. As often as either of you look upon these rings, may you be reminded of this moment and the love you have promised to one another.”

Nicholas, please place this ring on Nicole’s finger and repeat after me:

1. Nicole  I give you this ring as a symbol of my love,

2. And… I am choosing to share my life’s journey with you.

3. I give you this ring, with the pledge to love you;

4. today, tomorrow, always and forever.

Nicole, please place this ring on Nicholas’ finger and repeat after me:

1. Nicholas  I give you this ring as a symbol of my love,

2. And… I am choosing to share my life’s journey with you.

3. I give you this ring, with the pledge to love you;

4. today, tomorrow, always and forever.

Nicholas and Nicole… And want to wish you both much love and happiness as you begin your new journey. Remember … keep lots of laughter in your life and love will never be far behind.

* May all that you are – always be in love.

* May all that is love – always be in you.

* May your love be as beautiful on each day you share… as it is on this day of celebration.

* And may each day be as precious to you as the day you first fell in love.

* May you always see and encourage the best in each other.

* May the challenges that life brings your way make your marriage even stronger.

* May you always be each other’s best friend and greatest love.

PRONOUNCEMENT

Nicholas and Nicole, you have pledged your faith together in the company of two wonderful families, your circle of friends and the Good Lord as He smiles upon both of you today.

 And with the power vested in me by the State of California…I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the spouse!

 Ladies and gentlemen, I am proud to present for the first time… Mr. & Mrs. Nicholas and Nicole Driscoll