Joseph Chetwoot Peters
Minister ID: 200144-113158
Minister ID: 200144-113158
Officiated by Joseph Chetwoot Peters at Heathen Estate in Vancouver, Washington on July 6th, 2022. Witnessed by John Derr and Amanda Flahaven.
"I was so excited when Brennan and Mona asked me to officiate their wedding. I have personally known Brennan for 27 years. That would have made him 3 years old when we first met (I was dating his Sister then, now married 27 years.) How they met: August 22, 2017 Brennan had just moved to Ocean Shores and somehow ended up at my birthday party. He was the only person out of about 50 there that I didn't know. I went to him and said, "I don't know you, who are you?" He said, "I'm Brennan, who are YOU?" I said, "I'm Mona and this is MY party." Hahaha. The rest is history. The Proposal: January 15, 2022 It was a Saturday, I got up and wanted to start cooking some food and make a cup of coffee. Generally, Brennan and I cook together (it's one of our things) but this time as I went to make my cup of coffee he told me that he was going to do it and to go lay back down. When he brought me my coffee it was in a cup that said "Will you marry me?" and he was down on one knee with a beautiful ring. The Wedding Day: July 6, 2022 When I arrived to the venue, it was slightly overcast and a warm 74 degrees. A bit humid. It had rain earlier in the morning. However a light breeze was present and welcomed. The majority of the groomsmen and the groom were enjoying a beverage and a cigar around the fire pit. My father-inlaw, the grooms father, immediately offered me a drink and cigar. We were about 2 1/2 hours away from the ceremony, so I indulged with the cigar. After the cigar, I visited with the groom and bride separately to discuss the ceremony script one last time and made sure to check if they had any additional needs for the ceremony. I proceeded to get ready with the groom wedding party. Dressed in my kilt and suit jacket (MackIntosh Clan Tartan) I obtained the marriage license, reviewed dates, accuracy, and required signatures from Bride, Groom and wittiness. I ensured the Bride and Groom that I would take the responsibility to mail the completed marriage license. The Ceremony was amazing (See Pictures and Script). The Bride and Groom wrote their own vows. It was an honor and pleasure to officiate Brennan and Mona's wedding. This was the 2nd ceremony that I have officiated. "
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Dearly Beloved and Honored Guests,
Welcome. Please be seated.
[to Bride and Groom]
Brennan and Mona, today we are gathered here to celebrate the love you have discovered in each other and support the commitment you are about to make.
Marriage is more than two people standing here and repeating vows. This contract is not to be entered into lightly but thoughtfully and seriously, and with a deep realization of its obligations and responsibilities.
Please remember that love, loyalty, and understanding are the foundations of a happy and enduring home. There is an entire lifetime ahead of you and there are skills to be learned and practiced daily.
Part of marriage is finding happiness. Continue to search for the good, the fun, and the beautiful in this life to share with each other.
Part of marriage is being flexible. So, within your marriage cultivate flexibility, and patience, all while maintaining a sense of humor and joy.
Part of marriage is companionship. Strive to comfort one another and develop the capacity to forgive and heal your differences day by day.
Part of marriage is communication. Always communicate, especially the tough stuff...Not only talking….but listening…..hearing….Communicate your love…Say I Love You’s
Remember that your love can always prevail in times of turmoil. It will drive you to not only learn and to grow as individuals, but become stronger partners together.
Today, as you join yourselves in marriage, there is a vast and unknown future stretching out before you. At conclusion of this ceremony you will leave here as husband and wife; your lives blending together and expanding the ties of your family and best friends. You are embarking upon a great adventure, through which all of us here know you will prevail.
[to guests]
Brennan and Mona present themselves to be married today, cheerfully surrounded by the people they love the most. They, and I, want to thank you for your presence here today. They ask for your encouragement and lifelong support in their decision to be married.
(Personal Story- I've known Brennan for about 27 years. My first memories of you are from my first visit to the mountain house to visit Amy. You were about 3 years old, in PJs, sitting on the floor with a blanket watching Rugrats and eating a snack. Of course sister Emily next him. Since then I have watched you grow up, attending a number of your hockey matches here in Vancouver, Portland, and in the MidWest in Lacrosse, Madison. Next thing I know your all grown up and met this amazing young lady and her wonderful kids I have enjoyed seeing you grow up from Rugrats to this special day. You both are so happy together, I love you and you have my lifelong support.
At this time Mona and Brennan will now share their vows that they wrote for each other and exchange rings as a symbol of their love and commitment.
Mona *(Vows)*
Brennan *(Vows)*
So to make this official I need to officiate some legal "Declaration of Intent" stuff. So let's push this puck up ice and slap it into the back of the net for the win and let's celebrate.
Brennan and Mona please face each other holding hands.
Do you Brennan take Mona to be your lawfully wedded partner, to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, in good times and woe, for richer or poorer, keeping yourself unto her for as long as you both shall live?
*(Wait for Confirmation)*
Do you Mona take Brennan to be your lawfully wedded partner, to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, in good times and woe, for richer or poorer, keeping yourself unto him for as long as you both shall live?
*(Wait for Confirmation)*
By the authority vested in me by American Marriage Ministries and the State of Washington I now pronounce you husband and wife! .........Sealed with a KISS
Family and Friends, It is with great honor that I present to you Mr. and Mrs. Derr
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